The U.S. and the Irish, nationality and ideas
The conservative columnist George F. Will once said that America is different from other countries because it's based on ideas rather than nationality.
Americans are English and French and African and Hispanic and hundreds of other ethnicities, often in multi-ethnic mixes. I am Irish, Russian and English myself.
In Belfast, they're Catholic and Protestant, of course, and they have been fighting about that for centuries. And though Northern Ireland is run by the UK, and subsidized by the dominant nation a few miles across the sea, it's essentially Irish in its national character.
I learned (or "learnt" as they say here) that from the Hughes family of Shankill Road, the dividing line between Catholics and Protestants in Belfast. They overheard us talking as my wife and I dined at Laverty's, a traditional English-style pub down the street from our hostel. It's dark there, yet festive. It's a family place where parents take their children. And since it's gay pride weekend here, the place was festooned with rainbow flags. An "alternative" crowd with day-glo hair and Edwardian frock coats mixed with the middle-class crowd. Eileen Hughes, the talkative petite blonde mum, overheard us talking and proudly identified her neighborhood and her unionist, protestant background.
To this point, we have mostly been exposed to "Republicans," mostly Catholic, who's allegiance is with the Irish Republic. Unionists, like the Hugheses, support the union with England. It's easy for the Republicans to portray them as bad guys. There is separation and discrimination. But that's not the fault of Eileen and Morris Hughes or their banker son, Gary, with whom they were celebrating his 28th birthday.
They were a normal, friendly family. "Oh, it's real,"Gary said, referring to the "Troubles," the deadly conflict between Protestants and Catholics. "But we have normal lives."
"We tell the tourists and the British, especially the British, we wear bulletproof vests all the time. We love to scare 'em," Gary said, as he smiled.
He also joked that his best friend Mark, a family guest at dinner, was from "the Falls," on the Catholic side of the line. "Really?" I asked. Mark said no, he wasn't from that side of the wall; it was a joke.
I then asked if any of them have Catholic or Republican friends. "No, we never talk to them," Mark said.
In my second week here, I have seen and heard the Irish be sweet, funny, romantic, lyrical, and creative. But also hard and self-righteous. And these are national and ethnic characteristics shared north and south, Catholic and protestant.
Yes, we have that in the states, too. We have deep divisions and distrust. There are a lot of kinds of "us," and more kinds of "them." But that doesn't define us. We are defined by our principles of freedom, of moving forward, of making a better life.
On this July 4, in a place without fireworks or flags, I am proud to be an American